Benefit Of Doubt

From his tone, voice, the "expression". She sense that, something was hide in behind.

He didn't tell the truth.

He tried to hide something.

She know that the purpose of his doing so is because of don't want to let her misunderstood. He went out with a girl for a movie. She is ok with it. This is his freedom, his personal space. As she sometimes did go out t with a guy as well. This is normal.

However, why he told her that he went with 2 other girls whereby in fact is only with a girl?

Why he didn't tell her that this Saturday he had a date with friend until she asked him?

Why he seem like stealthy when she told him that she might go to meet him at One U?

Why he behave like doing shameful thing?

This is not the first time they quarreled because of this issue.

He explained that because he don't want to cause any misunderstood in between them. In his opinion, this is not good for a guy who already attached went out with another girl alone.

In his opinion, choose to not to tell the truth is better than tell the truth as he know the girl will not happy.

She really wonder. Did he really understand her? Did he know that by not telling the truth, she will more angry and not happy? Did he know that, the girl did tell him not to tell a lie no matter who he go out with?

In guy's opinion, they think that the best way to avoid any misunderstood with his girl friend is choose not to tell the truth.

However, in girl's opinion, they think that if their boy friend didn't' tell the truth, this is call LIE, whereby the guy try to do something shameful and betray their girl friend.

Wondering.. where is the benefit of doubt in between them?

Ya it's correct that she should trust the guy. However, how can she trust him if he keep on telling the lie?

If there is no Benefit of Doubt in between the persons, regardless of whether they are friends, colleges, couple, employer-employee, it's really hard to maintain the relationship.

It's really hard for a employee to stay at that company in the long term.
It's really hard for them to maintain the friendship.

The trust, is fading.. Although, the love is there..