Wednesday, November 24, 2010

吵不散的才是爱

吵架,我想大多数的情侣都会碰到 过,彼此越是喜欢,而越容易吵架 明明知道是很小的一点事,却到最后是那么的生气,互相挂掉电话,接下来就是冷战 其实这个道理他一直都懂,他知道这 是在乎的表现,所以他对她的爱从来就没有动摇过 如果只有他那么想,那最后肯定有一方会承受不住的,因为他也不敢确定她是不是和他想的一样.


谈 恋爱的人,是不是能较好地交流,这可不一定。有时,相爱的人反倒不能交流。林黛玉最爱贾宝玉,爱得不要命,可是一见面就吵、就哭。越是相爱就越容易吵架。 薛宝钗为什么不跟贾宝玉吵呢?因为她不爱他。女孩子喜欢谁就跟谁吵,这一点对男士有极大的参考价值! 一个人对另外一个人的感情如果很一般,就很客气,很 有礼貌,很尊重人家跟你不同的东西,有一种求同存异的倾向;而感情越好,对对方越关心,求同的倾向越强,达到一个峰值,也就是最高点,就接近全面求同。明 知对方对自己有感情,感情强烈,就越不讲理、苛刻,有点专制了。

所以今天我就详细的把 吵架分析一下,希望看了的人能够看懂,把话读透!相爱的男女朋友 对方的一举一动都细细的看在眼里,会胡思乱想很正常的,所以,当你有了男(女)朋友之 后 请对其他异性保持一定距离. 好好的去珍惜你身边那位会约束你,会吃你醋的人吧 不要觉得他(她)不讲道理,因为要讲理,那就做普通朋友好了,普通朋友不会约束你 并且永远都会尽量顺 着你,讲好听的给你。

相爱的情人任何的吵闹,嫉妒,猜忌,孩子气,都是合理正常的。因 为他(她)重视你,重视你们之间的一切 才会情感敏感而强烈.如果现在的你,正因为你的男(女)朋友无理取闹而生气,请拿起电话打给他(她)吧 冷战时期 其实对方都想要给对方打电话,但互相也是在等着对方的电话,就是因为彼此都这么想 所以既难受又生气,甚至越想越气,最后闹的是不可开交,所以在他遇到这 种情况的时候 他都是第一个说话的人,因为他知道她是那么的爱他,他也是那么的爱她,男人就应该让着自己心爱的女人 这个因为换个角度想一想你也是幸福中 的人啊!

好好的珍惜你身边为了一点小事而吃醋生气的人吧,因为你拥有着这样的深深爱 着你的人是——幸福! 情人心里面容不下一粒沙子,哪怕是很小很小.真正爱你的人是容不下你和异性单独聊天或单独出去的 。 为什么要珍惜男(女)朋友?因为对方很爱你,会甘心情愿为你做很多事,很多普通朋友不会帮你做的事你的男(女)朋友都会为你去做。《 打出来的男、女人嘴服,疼出来的男、女人心服。》 总之吵架的根本原因就是真爱和在乎的混合体!!这可是一份最真最真的幸福噢~

女人不吵了、不闹了、不叫了,就是真的不爱了

女人说要离开,是伤心了,是你让他失望了.

女人明知道你们之间没有未来,却情愿留在你身边做个普通朋友,不是她太贱,只是她舍不得 .

女人故意在你面前提到别的男人,不是她花心,只是想要刺激一下你,让你多在乎她一点 .

女人不主动打电话、发信息给你,不是不想你,是她不够自信,你接到电话、短信时,是否也同样的想念她 .

如果女人不爱你,是不会对你发脾气的,不要报怨自己的女朋友脾气太怪,女人只对她爱的人发脾气.

女人不是不知道你还有别的女人,她选择独自伤心却不揭穿你,是害怕揭穿后给了你一个离开她的借口.

女人总是在你面前假装很开心,不是她没心没肺,成天傻乐,只是为了在你面前留下最美的样子.

男人 其实你不懂


記住..如果我選擇了你,我就一定會愛你、但是如果你先放棄,我不會回頭了



不喜欢就不要选择

喜欢了就要坚持

真正的幸福是

一点一点争取的

是一天一天积累的

不要去伤害喜欢你的人

也不要让你喜欢的人受伤害

成熟不是看你的年龄有多大

而是看你的肩膀能挑起多重的责任

喜欢一个人要

用心、诚心相待

真心交流

恒心相守

不要计较太多的得与失

感情没有绝对的公平

也没有绝对的对错

要学会用一颗宽容的心包容对方的缺点与失误

在一起是一种缘分

真的好珍贵..

不要轻易让喜欢你人哭泣伤心

好好珍惜在一起的每一分钟

美好的回忆应该留给快乐和欢笑

无论遇到什么事情

都不要轻易说你不喜欢我

不要轻易放弃我这段感情

下一站未必比我好

相信喜欢你的人

不要总是怀疑我的诚意

亲密之余给彼此留一点自己的空间

经常想念你

哪怕你的坏

设身处地的多为对方着想

永远也不想让你的面孔变得陌生

其实每个人一开始都不懂爱情

与喜欢的人一起经历一些事情

甚至一起经历一些痛苦

才能变得成熟

才会懂得珍惜

爱了就爱了

永远不要说后悔

只是一定要记住

让相爱的日子多一点欢乐

不要留下遗憾

喜欢一个人是一件很幸福

又很辛苦的事

我总是希望可以与我的喜欢的人能“执子之手、与子偕老”

所以我总是告诉自己:

选我所喜欢、喜欢我所选

既然我选择了

我也会用心的对待

我不想让我们彼此陌生

所以我用心去爱

创造自己的幸福…

不要怀疑

也不要不相信我

即然我选择了你

我一定可以做到

我等你…

记住我会爱你生生世世

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Drunk Night, 12th Nov 2010


That night,
We were drunk.
That was the first time i saw he drunk, even ah long also said so.
He slept on the floor, he vomit out the beer.
He had drank 2 pins of the beer.
Ah long said that he never drink so much before, this was the first time

He mumbled with some words.
I know he was pain too, me too..

x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

"Even though we were together, the scar is already there! No matter what i explained to you, you will not trust me anymore. Even though... "

"Fine. Then breakup!" I said.

Silence filled in the air..

My words had stopped him from shouting at me.
This was the first time he scolded me. This was the first time that he shouted at me.
And, this was the first time that..

I said out the word, FACE TO FACE.

The words had stopped us from arguing.
We remained silent, for almost 10 minute.

I cant bear the feeling of pain,
I just want to get drunk. I ordered another bottle of Henekan,
2 bottles of Heneken,
I already half drunk..

I want to go back myself by taxi,
He hold me back, " I fetch you." He insisted.

My step was stumbled. . He didn't hold me.
I just want to get drunk, i take out the phone want to call friend for another drink,
He grabbed my phone.

I was collapsed. I want to get back the phone. I cried. He insisted not to return it to me.
I cried in the car. He still scolding me.

"If you want to break, then break la! I was very tired with this issue. I was very fed up! I'm ok with it ! " He said.

My heart was bleeding..
I don't want to go back. I just want the beer.
He brought me to ah long 's house, together with gie, ahsong, continue to drink..

That night was the first time i experienced the feeling of drunk, it was wonderful, i should say.
Because it really can make me forgot the thing, temporarily.
I was totally lost my conscious. I vomit out the whisky, sit in the toilet,
He was worried and ask me don't lock the toilet door.

I woke up, joined them the drink and continue another cup of Whisky.
Bottom's up. One shot finished.

2 bottles of Heneken, already make me half drunk.
Plus 2 cups of the Whisky (on the rock), worse.
I cant wake up. I slept on the floor.
He carried me to the room.
I was very scared. I cried and keep on saying that must bring me back..

"Ya i will. You just take rest. I will bring you back. Don't worry." He reassured.
He kissed my forehead before he left to the living room.

I slept.. Don't know how long..
Just felt that when i woke up, i went out the room to find him.

He was slept on the floor. He was drunk.
He was very very pain. He refused to breakup.

Me too..
The heart was very very pain the moment i said out the word..

Can we go through this stage together.... ?